Fear of Commitment
Commitment Phobic?
What are signs of a commitment phobic man?
From Our Questionnaire
7 Words Works!
How?
There are only 7 core gestures of communication - this is the essence of the 7 Words System - which states that in all the complexity of human relationships, the 7 primary words and 28 keywords are enough to explain everything that goes on between partners. These words are the basic themes within all things—they convey the necessary stages that healthy exchanges go through because they are the foundation of all thoughts, ideas and behaviours. Their presence and use are signs of a committed relationship.
Benefits can be gained from applying 7 Words in all the following areas and many other aspects of seeking signs of a committed relationship and living in loving relationships:
- Individual identity
- Opening up to new ideas about oneself and others
- Appreciating your partner
- Making decisions together
- Joint visions and ventures
- Apologizing
- Staying excited and enthusiastic
Here is the fundamental suggestion behind 7 Words—that there are seven basic qualities of life experience, including personality profile and compatibility, which can be described by 7 primary words:
The keyword for No are these:
Boundaries Identity Choice Truth
Here's an extract from the e-book that specifically relates to choice:
In the long term, our choices reflect our identity, and our continuous experimentation with choice is a way of refining who we are. Relationship offers a great way to explore and try things out. Life incorporates many options and every day we are faced with various choices, each one taking us in a particular direction. We may find this difficult, struggling to decide what to do, what alternative to take, which path to follow. Without being able to make clear choices, how can we be certain about who we really are? Then we’d probably live in a confused state, unable to take action, weighed down by ‘should I or shouldn’t I?’ If we can’t choose, we may need to consider how deeply this weakness goes. It may well be to do with being uncomfortable with individuality. Once we have a firm identity, choice will be easier.
Some people make decisions based on logical thinking and reasoning: the mind. Others make their choices based on the heart. Which voice do we listen to most? Head or heart? Perhaps the wisest choice is one that incorporates both the head and the heart: to listen to the intuitive wisdom that speaks from within and also to check it out against cold reason. Deep down, it is likely that we know what the right choice for ourselves is. One little trick that comes in useful is to walk backwards and forwards in a room, having set up two opposing walls to symbolize ‘this’ or ‘that’. As we walk, eventually the body will feel a difference—a preference—from which an intuitive awareness of ‘rightness’ can be inferred. And if in doubt, since Yes pleases the body most of all, we can try using the general rule that ‘Maybe means No’
If you have enjoyed this brief summary of 7 Words - in this case to do with the primary word No and its keyword Choice - and would like to know more about how it can be applied in detail to improve relationships and other aspects of life in general...
..further information and suggestions are available in the form of free questionnaires, reports, eBooks and other study material...
... and for even more detailed explanations and examples of 7 Words applications, try the workbook: 7 Words Principles and Practices.
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Self-examination "Relationship"
You can have fun with this or take it very seriously...it is a way to look at yourself and your circumstances
Drag these life categories into your order of importance for you
Score each 1 to 10 according to how satisfied you are with this area of life
The Satisfaction Index is a measure of your level of OK-ness with this area of your life
The Primary Word and Critial Keywords may help guide you towards improvement of the quality of your life
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